People these days...

Last night, all the pain and loneliness kind of came together, and I had to face the fire of insults. I don't really know what to say about it, except telling someone they're ugly hurts them more than you could ever imagine. You don't know what their life is like, and that could easily push someone over the edge. Coincidentally, it was To Write Love On Her Arms Day, at my high school (self harm prevention). Insults never help.

But I guess I learned who my good friends are. The ones who asked if I was okay, the ones who actually did something, when I was paralyzed, hurt and irrational. Don't wait to tell your friends you love them, until their time of need. Show them your love, every day. It's worth it!

And now writing this, I started crying. I thought I was over it, but I guess it's not that easy. It's so easy to tear someone down, but building yourself back up is so hard to do. And usually, I'd say "Don't let the haters get at you" but when it's you, it's not that easy to believe that they're just haters. But believe me, now. Everyone has beauty. Some, are more beautiful than others, or are beautiful in different areas of life. You may have beautiful facial features, where another has a beautiful soul and personality. Look for the good in others, and respect the people around you, for when you give respect, you will get it, in return. And if you don't, they're not worth your time, anyways.

But enough of me trying to give you all life lessons. Those are for you to learn, via experiences, not reading my blog.



Think before you speak.
xoxo,
Marjean.<3